May 21, 2008
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‘The Prince of Frogtown’
Many
of the writers I most admire are fellow Southerners. With almost 200
years of Mississippi blood running through my veins, you'd think I'd
choose a writer from the Magnolia State as my premiere idol — Eudora
Welty, who shares my alma mater; or Yazoo City's legendary Willie
Morris, who used to speak to us at our state English teachers'
meetings; or Mr. Bill Faulkner, who sat drinking bourbon on his Oxford
front porch when my mama and daddy were at Ole Miss.
I
respect and admire all of those literary giants, but my truest idol is
a good ol' boy from next-door Alabama — a slow-talking newspaperman
named Rick Bragg.
A country boy who grew up red-dirt-poor
in northeast Alabama, he started his career covering sports for a
little weekly paper, and ended up a Pulitzer-Prize-winning reporter for
the New York Times. He has no college education, no fancy degrees after
his name. What he has is bone-deep, God-given talent, a rare gift for
red-hot words that jump off the page and lodge deeply in your heart,
like bullets.
I'd never heard of Bragg until I picked up
a paperback copy of his first family memoir, "All Over But the
Shoutin'," in Tuscaloosa about 10 years ago. When I read the first few
pages, chillbumps jumped out on my arms, and tears blurred my eyes. I
had found someone who wrote like I longed to be able to write.
"Rick Bragg writes like a man on fire," author Pat Conroy said, and he's right.
Bragg's
third book in his family trilogy — "The Prince of Frogtown" — is just
out, and I snatched it up and read it as fast as I could. It's his best
one yet.
"The Prince of Frogtown," about the author's
father, closes the circle that was begun with "All Over but the
Shoutin'," the story of Bragg's early life, focusing on his good mother
and how her strength enabled him to break free of the cycle of poverty
and despair that imprisoned his family. In that book, he spoke with raw
bitterness of his alcoholic father. He spoke of him as a "daddy who ...
allowed the devil inside him to come grinnin' out every time a sip of
whiskey trickled in, who finally just abandoned his young wife and sons
to the pity of their kin and to the well-meaning neighbors who came
bearing boxes of throwaway clothes."
But in this new
book, published 11 years later, the older and wiser Bragg has come to a
more complete grasp of the man his long-dead father really was.
In
his younger years, Bragg had tried to deal with the pain he carried by
ridding himself of his father's memory. "I sawed my family tree off at
the fork, and made myself a man with half a history," he writes in "The
Prince of Frogtown."
But that didn't work. Bragg’s
friend Willie Morris told him he would never have any peace until he
wrote about his father. “’My boy,’ he said, ‘there is not a place you
can go he will not be.’” The younger writer took his friend’s advice.
Woven
into this story of his heartfelt search for the truth about the man who
was his father, in counterpoint, is the story of another father and son
— Bragg and the young stepson he acquired in childless mid-life, who is
teaching him elementary lessons about the relationship between a boy
and his dad. And learning to love this stepson is helping him look back
at his own father with a faltering, courageous attempt at forgiveness.
Bragg
says he had never wanted children, and made a point never to date a
woman with children — then found himself hopelessly in love with the
boy's mother. "By the time I regained what sense I had, I was driving
car pool next to a ten-year-old boy who, for reasons I may never truly
understand, believes I hung the moon.
"I guess it is
natural that, in the company of the boy, I almost always think of my
father....With the weight of that new boy tugging at my clothes, I went
to find him."
Bragg writes about his pilgrimage back in
time on his search for his father. He digs deep into his father's
family history, of the clan that came down from the Appalachian
foothills to work in the cotton mills, learning stories of the men who
drank whiskey like water and fought like wildcats and broke their
women's hearts.
Along the way, he found a handful of
people who remembered Charles Bragg with love, who remembered the good
man inside the tortured whiskey-ravaged veteran, and were glad to share
that man with the son he had lost.
One of those people,
surprisingly, was Margaret, Bragg's angel of a mother, who he finally
realized had never stopped loving her black-haired, smiling husband, in
spite of the years of agony he put her and their boys through.
"'I loved him,' she told me, and in all my life, I had never heard her say those words," he writes.
After
I read the last pages of his new book, after I wiped the tears out of
my eyes, I wrote Rick Bragg a note and emailed it to his office at the
University of Alabama, where he's now teaching writing and working on
his next book.
“Thank you,” I told him, “for showing the
rest of us who dare to call ourselves writers what can be done with the
English language when the words are powered by love.”By Celia DeWoody
Copyright 2008 Harrison (Ark.) Daily Times
May 21, 2008
Comments (8)
You have really made me excited to get Bragg's books and get started on them. I saw him on a news show recently and thought I'd like to read him and then promptly forgot all about it. Thanks for the reminder! If he could read your article, I know he would be well pleased. Why don't you email it to him?
I love YOUR writing! You paint pictures with words and give them life and emotion in how you put the words together. And in the painting you include a little glimpse of yourself, too, which draws me right into the heart of the word-picture. I agree with the above comment, that you should email Mr. Bragg a copy of your article/review. Love you, Gerrie
Gerrie is so right. You are such a wonderful writer -- do these essays flow out of you, or do you need to write and revise? They seem so natural. And having creative heroes is really important. I don't know how many writers I hold up as heroes of the art, but I have a handful of visual artists I look at in wonder. Thanks for making me think about this.
Thank you for a great blog, one I've really enjoyed reading.
That's funny, because that's how your writing makes ME feel. I read your columns and something deep inside me cries to be expressed with that sort of beauty and depth and glow.
I guess it's continually being inspired by others that feeds that little fire inside us, doesn't it?
You know, I'm not really one for reading books about authors' lives, but since I've been "xanga-ing", writing about things in my heart and life, and reading the stories of others, I'm really changing my perspective about what I like to read. Your story of Rick Bragg has piqued my curiosity so now I'm just going to have to get his books.
My dad was so much the opposite of his and the relationship I had with my him was so awesome. The interesting thing is now as I've grown older, I'm finding that within my circle of friends and co-workers, apparently I'm the odd man out when it comes to the father-son relationships. It seems that so many of my friends (regardless of gender) had either bad, or non-existent, connections with their fathers. Even my own wife didn't really know her dad like a daughter should. He was pretty much not present in her life after her parents divorced.
I've often wondered why this has happened. Is it because God needed me to be in their lives to show them that good relationships can be had with dads? Or is it that God needed me to see, and learn from, the pain that all these others have experienced. I like to think it's the latter.
Thanks for sharing this story, as well as all the ones about your life. I aspire to one day have your gift!
God Bless!
As a fellow lover of the written word (particularly the Southern written word), let me just say that this article is fantastic!
Yea for the South!
Have a great Weekend!