June 5, 2008
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Summertime....
Do you remember
the last day of school in the spring, when delicious summer used to
stretch out in front of you like a shining yellow ribbon that just kept
unwinding forever off its spool?
When I was a child, it
seemed like the span of months from the time school was out in May to
when we went back to school after Labor Day lasted as long as a year
does now, or maybe longer. Those endless sunshiny days, when you could
take your time and never have to get in a hurry, and go barefoot, and
read books, and make chains of clover blossoms, and eat hand-cranked
homemade ice cream and play Hide-and-Go-Seek with your cousins?
I
hope summertime still feels that way to today's children. I'm not sure
it does, since modern kids seem to be kept much busier than we were
with supervised, planned activities — organized sports, summer camps,
music lessons, dance classes, as well as elaborate family vacations.
They may be so busy that the summer is over before they can turn around.
When I think of my childhood summers, I think of Mississippi.
Every
summer of my life, my family packed up the big Ford station wagon and
drove long miles from wherever the Navy had taken us — Florida,
Virginia, Georgia, Washington State, Rhode Island — on the annual
pilgrimage to our ancestral homeland in the Deep South.
The
house Mama grew up in in Macon was our home base. Daddy would park the
station wagon in the gravel driveway under the huge oak trees, and we’d
invade Poppy and Granddaddy's big old white pre-Civil War house for a
couple of weeks.
My sister Cissy and I were in
little-girl heaven in Macon, with all the freedom that a small town
offered to children in those more innocent days. We could flip-flop our
way to the American Legion swimming pool a few blocks away, or even the
mile over blistering sidewalks “to town” where we’d spend a happy hour
reading Archie comic books and chewing huge wads of grape bubble gum in
Miss Claire Ferris' Bookstore. Or Mama would drop us off for a matinee
at the Dreamland Theater, the same theater where she’d watched World
War II newsreels as a child.
We could count on my
mother's sister —my aunt Mimi — and her two boys, our cousins Danny and
Beau, driving up from Jackson to see us while we were in town. Cissy
and I were always ecstatic to see our older cousins, especially Beau,
whom we extravagantly admired. He was rough and tough and knew boy
stuff that our family of little girls didn't know — like how to throw a
football, or build a tree house high in the tallest oak tree — and he
could play the guitar! Beau was sweet enough to let his little girl
cousins follow along behind him some of the time, so we dogged his
steps and waited on him hand and foot like faithful slaves.
With
visiting cousins and neighborhood friends, Cissy and I spent happy
hours out in Poppy and Granddaddy's big yard. There was a big treeless
lot on the side where we'd play touch football or fly kites. We were
fascinated by the front yard’s gnarled, shady magnolia tree, which had
a long, low branch that allowed even clumsy tree-climbers like me
access to its cool, rustling depths.
The front steps and
sidewalk were the setting for a crazy-quilt of carefree pastimes.
Poppy's front porch had a dozen concrete steps up to it, and the steps
were flanked on either side by short brick two-level walls that were
the perfect size for children to sit, or even lie down, on. Leading
from the front steps down to the quiet cul-de-sac was a long, wide
concrete sidewalk, where we roller-skated and rode bikes and trikes and
played jacks and hopscotch. The steps and the sidewalk were the stage
for a thousand barefoot games of Rock School, Running Water, Red
Light-Green Light, and Mother May I.
We played out
there every evening, until the lightning bugs started sparking in the
grass. Then it was time to dash to Poppy's pantry and find Mason jars
to catch them, running through the twilight through the cool grass,
before it was time to go inside. It seems like Cissy and I went to
sleep every night with lightning-bug lamp on the dresser in our room,
twinkling sweetly in the dusk.
My sister and I would
snuggle up in the bed under the light white chenille bedspread and
soft, ironed linen sheets, under the framed composite of our Aunt
Kaki's school pictures all the way from first grade through her senior
portrait, which we studied with fascination. The silvery gray wallpaper
was decked with big white feathery scrolls, and the high ceiling looked
like it was a mile away. We could hear the faint murmurs of Poppy and
Mama and Aunt Mimi's voices from the front porch, and the quiet noise
of Granddaddy's TV from the back of the house. The light white curtains
blew gently in front of the tall open windows, letting in the warm
Southern air, soft with humidity. We'd drift off to sleep to the
comforting chorus of crickets and cicadas, and would soon be dreaming
honeysuckle dreams.
By Celia DeWoody
Copyright Harrison (Ark.) Daily Times 2008
Published June 4, 2008
Comments (7)
I miss those kinds of childhood days too. I didn't grow up in a small town like that, but like you, we had lightning bugs! We don't have them here in California, and my children only ever got to see my childhood home in the fall. So I think the only way they might have seen them is when they went to summer camp in Minnesota as teenagers. There is just nothing like a warm humid summer night just after dusk, watching the lightning bugs come out! We caught our share of them too, for jars or putting as "jewelry" on our fingers. I don't remember where I was, but as an adult I saw them one time and it brought back wonderful memories. We had a brother and boys in our neighborhood so we played kick the can and hide and seek late in summer nights.
Where does the time go?
Perfect. All it's missing is Boo Radley. You know, I might even read this one out loud to Alison.
My gosh! This makes me want to go out, lie down in the grass and watch the clouds roll by and pick out shapes. What beautiful painting you gave us. Switch out girls for boys, and Durant, Oklahoma, or Sunrise Beach, Missouri for Mississippi and you just about described my growing up. WOW!
THANK YOU and God Bless.
I feel much more relaxed after reading this....it has made me slow down for a minute and think about those childhood pleasures that we SO took for granted. We thought it would all last forever, and now that time is just a memory. But what a happy memory!
I think you've hit upon a wonderful name for your memoir....Honeysuckle Dreams! Perfect!
A wonderful read about your childhood memories! Some of mine, in Cornwall mostly, were like this too. But in a very different experience, we also played out in the bombed buildings [left over from WW2 in almost every street I knew then]. Strange to think of now, but to us these overgrown and rubble-filled gaps between the houses were like adventure playgrounds. My friend and I - unknown to any adult! - took along our own little feast of jam sandwiches. Goodness knows what might have happened if anyone had found out
You relate so well your vacation in the South in your youth than I believe recognize myself living in the freedom of the childhood .
Well done Celia .
Love
Michel