July 23, 2008
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Walking is a joy I didn't embrace until my early
thirties, when I rediscovered the heart-lifting freedom we all felt as
children, moving around in the outdoors.
When my boys
were three and five, our family moved into town after living way out in
the country for a number of years. In town, instead of rutted gravel
roads, I found oak-shaded sidewalks to walk on. And in town, I found
companions to walk with.
One friend in particular
introduced me to the pleasures of walking. Sandra, the wife of the
First Baptist pastor, lived in the pastorium right down the street from
me. Always immaculately dressed — which in that era involved walking
shorts, knitted vests and Peter-Pan collars — she would lace up her
tennis shoes several times a day and head out at a healthy clip for a
therapeutic walk, away from the cares of her busy household.
The
first time I tagged along with her, I was gasping for breath after the
first few blocks. I kept at it, though, and it wasn't long before I,
too, was bitten by the walking bug and able to enjoy hearty hikes
around town.
Over my years in Mississippi, I walked more
days than not, with various friends, and often by myself. My usual
route was about three miles, from my house, past many landmarks of my
life — the First Methodist Church, where both my mother and my boys
were baptized and grew up — past the century-old Catholic church, which
later became so precious to me — past my grandmother Poppy's dear old
house — past the red-brick hospital, where both of my boys were born.
For
the next 15 years, I clocked a lot of miles on those familiar streets.
A few early mornings, but mostly late afternoons after work, I'd
tennis-shoe up and head out. Walking was something I did just for
myself.
If I was walking with a friend, it was a great
way to catch up and visit. And when I walked by myself, in some ways
that was even better. I could think, and pray, and sometimes just let
my busy mind wander and rest.
It was a special delight to
me to remember, as I walked across our town's uneven sidewalks, that my
faraway Mama had roller-skated across that same bumpy concrete when she
was a skinny little tow-headed girl.
After I moved away from Mississippi, I've never again achieved that degree of walker's dedication.
During
my Sarasota years, my favorite walks were barefoot ones along the beach
at Siesta Key, right at the edge of the water where the sand was firm.
I also walked often on the winding paths in our neighborhood, through
palm trees and live oaks dripping with Spanish moss, past curving lakes
where lazy alligators sunned on the banks.
Since Doyle
and I moved to the Ozarks, I haven't walked nearly as much as I did in
my younger days. We periodically do some trail-walking down near the
Buffalo, and we also walk in our neighborhood, or down at Lake
Harrison, from time to time.
But I long to add more
walking to my life. Not just because it's good for my physical health —
because it's good for my mental health, and I think it might be good
for my soul, too.
When you walk, you see things. You see
the bees buzzing around the flowers. You see the butterflies dancing
around the purple butterfly bushes. You see the mama redbird darting
down from the dogwood branch, and the robin family playing tag around
the pink crepe myrtles. You make friends with everybody's dogs. You get
to enjoy the fruits of your neighbor's hard work in their yards, and
admire their tomato plants. You get to watch little kids on important
bicycle journeys. You know when people mow their yards, and when
they're having company over for supper on the patio. You meet folks who
are out watering their flowers. You become knitted into life in your
neighborhood.
Walking reduces my stress level. I always
compare it to taking the top off a Coke bottle after it's been shaken
up, and letting the built-up fizz out. Walking makes me sleep better,
and improves my mood and my outlook on life. I can catch up on my
thinking, and my praying. My leg muscles get a workout, but while
they're working, other parts of me are unwinding and recharging.
If
you're feeling blue, walking can be one of the best medicines. For me,
just getting out in the fresh air and being surrounded by Nature
instead of by four walls can lift my spirits. And then there's the
physiological boost of getting your heart pumping and your endorphins
flowing, making you feel better from the inside out.
Walking
gives you a whole different perspective on life. It lets you see things
from a kids'-eye view, and reminds you of being a child, when you
wandered under your own steam, on foot or by bike — when you could see
things close-up. When you knew your neighbors' dogs names. When you
knew what everybody's backyard looked like, and where the smoothest
stretches of sidewalk were, and the best climbing-trees. When you were
acquainted with fresh air and sunshine, and that good tired feeling
your legs have at night after you've put them to good use. When you
were free to just — be.By Celia DeWoody
Copyright 2009 Harrison (Ark.) Daily Times
July 23, 2008

Comments (4)
I'm glad you get so much out of walking. I walk because of my poor circulation in my leg, but I don't enjoy it. It's tedious and is just something I have to do. Wish I had someone to walk with, but that's just not possible. I've tried. It's just not something guys want to do. But you are right that walking opens up a different world than driving does. And it is more contemplative, though right now, I don't need more thinking time. I'm reconciling my need for and my dislike of walking by making myself walk the mile into the bank and post office. I'm out on 17th Street; the center of town, where those two buildings share an town intersection, is on 3rd. That way, I'm at least accomplishing something with the walk.
Walking helps a person unwind..and well, catch up on a rosary or two, lol
Your description brought a vivid picture to mind--Sandra pushing the stroller, going along at a brisk clip through town. Seems like she was out walking more often than not. I tried walking with her a time or two, but I could barely keep up! I love walking on the farm, but I'm out of the habit right now. When the water was high in the spring, my routes were blocked, but now I have NO excuses. Better get back to it....I can tell my endurance, as well as my mental health, suffers when I sacrifice exercise. Hope you're walking more these days, too. Your lake is such a pretty place to enjoy.
I can just see Sandra pushing her daughter in that stroller and that child wearing a sweater or nightgown on her head, hanging down her back, pretending she had long hair! I wonder - did she ever grow her hair long? Where are the Jarrets - still in the Madison area? Love, Cyn