February 26, 2007
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A straight flush might be the top hand in poker, but when it comes to my family, you can't beat four-of-a-kind.
Back in the old days when I was a kid, five wasn't an unusual number of children for a family to have.
I was born first, then my sister Mary Katherine, or "Cissy," just 13 months later. Five years after Cissy came Marie ("Re.")
We
thought having three girls was great fun, so when we found out Mama was
going to have another baby, Cissy and I prayed that our new baby would
be another sister. I remember us screaming with joy when Holly was born.
Four of a kind. Just like in one of my favorite books, Little Women.
Meg, Jo, Beth and Amy.
Celia, Cissy, Re and Holly.
And like a poker hand, there was one more card - our brother Jay came along to finish out the hand when I was 14.
My
three little sisters have been a lifelong gift to me, and next to my
husband, are my dearest friends. I deeply love my brother, too, but
today I want to write about my sisters.
Like the four suits, each
one of us is different, with our unique personalities and gifts - and
faults - but together, we make a pretty good hand of cards.
Cissy
was my childhood playmate, 15-year-roommate, confidante, chief rival,
and sometimes protector. She could run faster and jump higher than I
could, and could almost always beat me at any kind of game. A tomboy
who loved to climb trees, she still dearly loved her dolls. She
challenged me to work harder in school, so my little sister's report
card wouldn't outshine mine, and encouraged me to put my books down and
play outside with her.
Cissy is a elementary school librarian by
trade, much loved by her students. She's also a devoted mother, a
faithful teacher in her church, a prayer warrior, a sailor, a scuba
diver, a reader, an adventurer, and a wise mother to two remarkable
young women.
She's the one I turn to when I need sage advice, an
expert listening ear, encouragement, and when I need a cheerleader.
She's also the one I turn to when I need someone to storm Heaven's
gates for me. She prays for me, believes in me, and loves me no matter
what.
Cissy's always been my favorite sister. I don't know what I'd do without her.
Marie,
or "Re" as she's been ever since she was a baby toddling around holding
onto my finger, was my little student. I helped teach her to walk, talk
and tie her shoes, and always felt very protective toward my spirited
little sister. Now, she's a "retired" high-powered executive currently
on sabbatical at home, lovingly taking care of her four-year-old son
and our mother.
Re's a devoted mother to her three boys, a gourmet
cook, a wonderful organizer, and a natural leader. She's the one I turn
to when I need a careful listener and a logical problem-solver. She's
got an analytical mind that can break problems down into manageable
bites. Deeply compassionate, she's the one I've called in years past at
2 a.m. when I just needed a shoulder to cry on. She prays for me,
believes in me, and loves me no matter what.
Re's always been my favorite sister. I don't know what I'd do without her.
Holly,
or "Hozzie" as she was nicknamed somewhere along the way, is the Baby
Sister. Because I was 10 when she was born, my love for this beautiful
little sister has always had a strong maternal streak. She shares my
love for books and nature - in fact, when we couldn't find her when she
was a little girl, we'd often discover Holly settled comfortably in her
favorite tree, reading a book. From the time she was tiny, we knew she
was gifted, because she always had a different way of looking at the
world.
She's a nurse, a business owner, a sharp businesswoman, and a
loving mother to her daughter and son. She's a mountain biker, a
runner, an explorer, a reader, and an adventurer, and she helps Re take
tender care of our Mama.
Hozzie's the one I turn to when I need a
unique take on a problem, when I need to laugh until I cry, and when I
need a big sweet dose of love. She prays for me, believes in me, and
loves me no matter what.
Hollys always been my favorite sister. I don't know what I'd do without her.
Each
of my sisters has our mother's beauty, our Daddy's wide warm smile, and
the deep springs of love that come only from walking in the Lord's
green pastures. All my life, He's poured out His love for me through
these three precious sisters.
I'm real grateful He saw fit to deal us four-of-a-kind.
Comments (6)
That's simply beautiful! The biggest regret in our marriage is that we didn't have more children I wonder what it would have been like to have another daugher, this entry makes me miss what might have been. Funny, I call each of my sons-in-law my favorite SIL...and they love it!
Celia, that's just plum beautiful! Your three sisters will all be in tears after reading this. What a lovely tribute!
Never having had a sister of my own, I've always been jealous of the closeness that sisters share. I was so thankful when my third child was a girl, so that my first daughter could have the joy of a sister. And I've enjoyed their sisterhood vicariously...
Like Marmee Ann, I call both my sons-in-law my "favorite." I do that with my girls, too, and now with my grands...but it is true! Each one is my favorite. Love has a special, magic quality which makes that possible.
I love how deeply you love your family. They are blessed.
Was this in the paper? You didn't include the copyright info, so I was just curious. It should be in the paper. It's good.
Yeah, 5...the magic number. Only in my family it was 4 boys and one girl with me being the youngest of them. My parents used to tell of how they wanted to keep trying until they got a girl, which was the the 4th child, and then they were going to stop. However, SURPRISE, then came me! I've never taken offense to them saying I was the "unplanned" child. It always made me feel kind of special. However, they never used the word, "mistake". Well, at least not in front of me!
What an amazing story you've shared and what amazing heart you share with your siblings!
Thank you!
On an offbeat note, I have something for you that you might find interesting. I read a post you put one of ideaguy's entries about an old hymn. I did a little bit of research and found the origin of it. Of course, I'm assuming you've done this as well but in case you haven't, check out the first poem on this link: http://www.northernway.org/cpprayers.html
Having celtic ancestry, reading this one and the others listed, instilled some wonderful thoughts for me. Thanks! (Now , where did I put all those celtic CD's?)
You have an amazingly tight-knitted family. (Though I think it's cheating to say that you have two favorite sisters.) I wish my siblings and I had the same connectedness. It was most interesting to me to see what you all grew up to be. You've got an interesting athletic streak in the family, don't you?
Sweet post.