Month: December 2008

  • Doyle and I went on one of the best hikes we've made since moving to the Ozarks today. We drove about an hour south of Harrison to the King's Bluff Loop Trail in the Ozark National Forest, between Pelsor and Ben Hur, Arkansas. It was a sunny blue day, 45 degrees, just perfect hiking weather. We love winter hiking in the Ozarks (no ticks and chiggers!) because you can see so far when the leaves are off the trees and it's just the bare bones of the landscape.
    This hike had it all ... two waterfalls ... great rock formations ... gurgling creeks ... great views of the hills ... not a power line or housetop in sight, just wild old hills. Wonderful.
    If you're interested in coming along on our hike with us, I'm going to post the slideshow above right.

    Here's a preview:

    doyle and hag on bluff
  • Hey, friends,
    How was your Christmas?
    Ours was lively, with plenty of food and conversation.
    Doyle's daughter Erika and her fiance' Mike drove all the way up from South Florida to spend Christmas with Doyle, Ruby and me, bringing along their six-month-old boxer puppy, Indie. Our Great Dane, Hagrid, was terrified of little Indie at first, because he's never really been around another dog much, but they were soon fast friends and spent as much time as possible playing together.

    I only had Christmas Day off from work, so it's been kind of busy for me around here, but it's been a nice week. We enjoyed having the kids here, and loved being in our new/old house for our first Christmas. I went to Midnight Mass on Christmas Eve, which I love. I missed my boys - I think this is only the second Christmas since Alex was born that I haven't had one of them with me.

    We've got the downstairs pretty straight and square-away, and it does look pretty, at least to us. The upstairs, where D and I hang out a lot, still has lots of boxes to be put away, but we'll get there.

    Tomorrow's my birthday - I'll be 53. Yikes! How did that happen???

    Tell me about your Christmases, friends!

  • Christmastime
    once again is here, my friends, and my heart is full, as hearts tend to
    be during this holy, stressful, joy-filled, busy, bittersweet season.
    I
    have a feeling your hearts are as full as mine is, with all of the
    emotions that well up so strongly during these sunshine-shy days,
    during the long winter nights spangled with the glow of Advent candles
    and Christmas lights and the twinkle of starshine.
    My heart is full  — of longing.
    Longing
    for my dear ones who are far away — both for those who are in different
    places on the map of this country, and those who are far away in that
    joy-filled land where there are no more tears. I’m especially missing
    my older son Alex, who’s out in the faraway Rockies, spending his
    second Christmas in Boulder. He has the day off from the Mediterranean
    Restaurant, where he’s a grill chef, and will probably get together for
    a meal with friends. We went out there to see him in August, and I
    probably won’t see him again until next summer. A few days once a year
    is just not nearly often enough for this Mama to see her firstborn
    child. I’m longing to sit next to him and listen to his stories and
    laugh, and think about how much he reminds me both of my Daddy and of
    his Mississippi grandfather, both big storytellers who had the gift of
    holding their audience in the palm of their hands.
    I’m missing my
    dear sisters, my lifelong best friends, and their children, and my
    sweet little brother, and faraway friends in Mississippi and Florida.
    I'm missing my cousin Beau in Louisiana, who’s always been more like a
    brother to me. I’m especially missing my little nephew Ben, who
    confided to Santa Claus he wanted a MOOSE for Christmas this year. I’m
    missing Mama and Daddy, and my grandparents, and my dear aunt Mimi, who
    have all flown away.
    My heart is full — of memories.
    Memories of
    long-ago Christmases. The Christmas when I was a little girl living
    with my family in Whidbey Island, Washington, when Daddy gave me and
    Cissy both our very own pair of little red wooden skis. Alex’s second
    Christmas, when, after he had torn open two or three gifts at his
    grandmother’s house, he looked at me and said, “No more pwesents, Mommy
    — dat's enough.” Jamie’s first Christmas, when his favorite object
    among all the toys and ornaments was a bright red apple, which he bit
    into, then crawled all over the house with it poking out of his mouth.
    My Daddy’s last Christmas in 2004, when Doyle and I went to his house
    in Sarasota on Christmas morning, and my husband fixed his special Eggs
    Benedict, which Daddy adored, and we all had such a happy visit.
    My
    heart is full — of anticipation. I’m looking forward to so many things.
    To our first Christmas in our new home, which will be shared by Doyle’s
    daughter Erika and her friend Mike. To the arrival of our first little
    grandson in February in faraway South Florida, where Doyle’s son Robert
    and his wife Christine and their three daughters are expecting little
    Robert Parker DeWoody. To our first springtime in our new house, when
    Doyle and Ruby and I’ll get to see what bulbs pop up in our yard, and
    delight for the first time in the blossoming of our very own dogwood
    tree. To another year of making new friends and growing deeper roots
    into the soil of our beloved Ozarks. To further opportunities to try to
    use the gifts our good Father has given me. To seeing what the Lord has
    around the next corner for us. To new lessons in His school of love.
    My heart is full — of gratitude.
    Gratitude
    for so many answered prayers, for blessings of “good measure, pressed
    down, and shaken together and running over,” as dear old Saint Luke
    said. For answered prayers for our families, for our children, for our
    friends, for ourselves. For our wonderful old Harrison house, where we
    all love living already, and for our warm and welcoming new neighbors.
    For my fun, challenging, interesting job here at the Daily Times, where
    I get paid to write, which I love to do, and for getting to meet all
    kinds of fascinating people and tell their stories. For my bright,
    funny, creative, supportive colleagues. For our church, and for our
    dear pastor, Father Greg Hart, who means so much to both of us. For my
    husband, who never fails to show me every day that he loves me, no
    matter what. For my sons, who are both such blessings to their Mama.
    For all of my kinfolks and friends, including my sweet mother-in-law
    Ruby, who love me and encourage me and pray for me and laugh with me
    and cry with me, and show me what love is.
    My heart is full — of joy.
    Our Beloved has come. Love has won. Let Heaven and Nature sing!
    Merry Christmas, dear friends. God bless us, every one.

    By Celia DeWoody
    Copyright 2008 CPI, Inc.
    Published December 24, 2008, Harrison (Ark.) Daily Times

  • Yesterday was my Mama’s birthday. She would’ve
    turned 75 if she were still living on this side of the River. Now she’s
    living in a place where life is not measured in years, but is ladled
    out in big dollops of joy.

    I wish you could’ve known her, because
    you would’ve loved her. And she would’ve loved getting to come up here
    to see us in our new hometown in the Ozarks and getting to know some of
    you.

    How can I describe Mama to you?
    Well, I can tell you what
    she looked like ... In her last years, wizened from osteoporosis and
    lung disease, she didn’t weigh 90 pounds soaking wet. But when I was a
    little girl, she was a true beauty, tall and very slender, with
    light-brown hair and green eyes and skin like silk — and the most
    perfect nose I’ve ever seen.

    When I was young and living in an old
    family home in our little Mississippi town, a man I’d never met knocked
    on my back door one morning. He turned out to be a native of the town,
    a relative of my in-laws who was at that time a well-known neurosurgeon
    in Memphis. While we were visiting, he  realized who my mother was.
    “Lucile Adams was the most beautiful girl who ever grew up in Macon,”
    he assured me very solemnly.

    I don’t know about that, but I do know
    she was voted “Most Beautiful” all four years at Macon High School.
    When I found the old annuals at her mother’s house and asked her about
    it, she just grinned and said, “Honey, this is a little town — there
    wasn’t much competition.”

    Mama college

    As beautiful as she was, Mama wasn’t the
    least bit vain. I can just see her, putting on her makeup as she walked
    through the house, slathering drugstore foundation over her cheeks and
    dabbing on a little lipstick without even looking in the mirror.

    She
    loved pretty clothes, but hated to shop, so she might have on something
    pretty and stylish, or she was just as liable to have on a pair of
    faded denim “pedal-pushers” and some beat-up white Keds.

    I can tell
    you what she collected. Santa Clauses. White china angels.
    Christmas-tree ornaments. R. S. Prussian china. Cranberry glass.
    Letters and cards from her children. Pictures of her family.

    I can
    tell you what she was good at. Telling funny stories, usually making
    fun of herself. Writing letters full of colorful details about our
    family’s lives, brimming with love and encouragement. Growing things.
    Perfectly folding an unwieldy fitted sheet. Matting and framing
    pictures. Decorating for Christmas. Making pecan pie and cornbread
    dressing and potato salad and the best fried chicken in the world.

    I
    can tell you what she didn’t like. Going very far away from home,
    wherever that happened to be at the time. Mushrooms. People who hurt
    her children.

    I can tell you a few things that will give you an idea of what kind of person she was.
    She
    took stray kids into her heart and into her home. When my younger
    brother and sisters were still at home, my folks were living in the DC
    suburbs. Mama took in a succession of their friends, kids whose parents
    had moved away before graduation, or who weren’t getting along with
    their families. They all adored Mama, and never forgot her. They knew
    she loved them.

    One of her special kids was a black boy named
    Curtis, who had been a friend of my brother’s in junior high school.
    Curtis, who lived with his grandmother, had a hard life. Mama took up
    time listening to him, and he knew he was always welcome at her house.
    Curtis went down the wrong road, and ended up in prison for selling
    drugs, but he stayed in touch with her. He would call Mama collect from
    prison when he needed encouragement, because he knew she loved him and
    was praying for him. He would send her cards on Mother’s Day.

    I
    can tell you what she loved ... She loved to laugh. She loved pie. She
    loved birds, especially redbirds. She loved flowers. She loved pretty
    antique china. She loved the old comedian, Jonathan Winters. She adored
    babies, and could get a fussing little one to settle down with a magic
    touch that I’m thankful to have inherited. She loved Christmastime. She
    loved her children and grandchildren, her family and her friends. And
    even though they were divorced after 30 years, and he married twice
    more before his death, she never stopped loving my Daddy.

    I can tell you a few of the memories of my mother I treasure most.
    Mama
    trying to teach us how to “Beat the Hambone,” a syncopated, rhythmic
    clapping, foot-tapping game she had learned from her black friends on
    the Mississippi farm when she was a little girl. Mama sitting at the
    breakfast table in about 1963, teaching me how to play jacks, scooping
    up the little metal stars so quickly you almost couldn’t see her
    slender hand. Mama holding my babies, looking into their eyes like they
    were windows into Heaven. Mama listening to me on the phone, laughing
    her wonderful, infectious laugh. Mama reading “The Three Billy Goats
    Gruff” to my little nephew Ben. Mama in her hospital bed, patting my
    hand, opening her green eyes to look at me and give me her sweet smile
    and tell me she loved me one more time.

    Mama’s unconditional love
    was something we could always count on. No matter what mistakes we
    made, or how we might have disappointed her, we always knew we could
    count on her to believe in us, to be on our side, to pray for us, and
    to never stop loving us.

    I believe Mama’s still doing all those things for her children.
    -----
    By Celia DeWoody
    Copyright 2008 Harrison (Ark.) Daily Times
    Published Dec. 17, 2008







  • Help! Does anybody know how to add code to link to a Picasa web album now that I'm using this Xanga themes doohickey so I can have a fancy page? I used to be able to paste the code for my web albums into a box on the Look and Feel page, and it would create a slideshow on my Xanga site of my Picasa web album, but on these Xanga themes, I can't find a box to paste the code into. Is it possible? 

  • Winter on the Buffalo

    Doyle and I ran away to the river this afternoon, and it was a lovely break from the past three or four weeks of packing and moving. We moved into our new house two weeks ago, and yesterday, we moved Doyle's mom, Ruby, in with us, so we've been busy!

    A dose of Nature was just delightful. It was warm today, overcast, but the woods and the river had their own austere beauty. beautiful bluffs Doyle and stick Celia and stick

    If you'd like to see more photos of our Christmas-tree cutting expedition Saturday, and our Buffalo River trek today, see my newest Web album on this site ...
    Hope y'all have had a great weekend!

  • THINGS THAT GO BUMP IN THE NIGHT

    I’m wishing I hadn’t already used the headline “Ghoulies and ghosties
    and long-leggety beasties ...” for a column earlier this year about
    mountain lions, and how we seem to enjoy the idea of scary creatures
    sharing our old hills with us.

     Well,
    since then, the idea of “ghoulies and ghosties” has come a little
    closer to home than those alleged mountain lions out in the bluffs near
    the Buffalo. A LOT closer to home!

    You know we moved into our
    new-old house last week. We’re having fun getting settled. We love the
    spaciousness and the tall windows and the porches, and the big trees in
    the yard, and the old pine floors and the quirky nooks and crannies.

    But we’re not quite sure how we feel about the GHOST ...
    Through
    all my almost-53 years, I have never before encountered anything that
    made me personally believe in haunted houses. When I was a senior in
    high school, my family lived in a 1800s-era converted carriage house
    near Newport, Rhode Island, where everyone else in the family claimed
    to have heard spooky footsteps or even to have seen a ghostly figure.
    Because I never had those experiences myself, I chalked the stories up
    to my kinfolks’ vivid imaginations.

    Well, right now I’m being forced
    to change my opinion about the reality of house-hauntings. Odd things
    keep happening, almost every day, at the interesting old house that —
    just for fun — we’ve named “Squirrels’ Leap.”

    The week before we
    moved in, I was at the house by myself, painting on the second floor. I
    was perfectly comfortable, not nervous, just thinking happy thoughts
    about our new home. Right at dusk, suddenly, the house filled with a
    combination of noises that at first I attributed to squirrels in the
    walls or on the roof. Then I realized it was louder and heavier than
    little squirrel feet — it sounded like somebody RUNNING through the
    downstairs rooms, causing noise and vibrations through the second
    floor. I laughed about it later and said the old house had more than
    squirrels in the walls — maybe they were chimpanzees or wolverines,
    judging by all the noise they were making. “Ghost” just never occurred
    to me, so I kept on painting.

    A day or two later, my son Jamie and I
    were over at the empty house, looking around. The house suddenly filled
    up with a delicious aroma that reminded me of baking apples, or maybe
    apple cake. We looked at each other, puzzled.

    “Where’s that smell
    coming from?” The oven was off, and there weren’t even any pans in the
    kitchen yet. In some rooms, the sweet scent was strong — in others, not
    discernible at all.

    Several times, doors have been found open that
    we left closed, but the strange phenomenon that has puzzled me the most
    is the white noise. We have a clock radio that is also a white noise
    machine. For several years, we’ve gone to sleep with the noise set on
    “Wind,” which makes a soothing, rushing noise that drowns out other
    noises and is pleasant to fall asleep to.

    Since moving into the new
    house, every time I’ve set the machine on the wind setting and tried to
    go to sleep, I’ve heard what sounds like a faint voice speaking a
    phrase over and over and over again, under the wind noise. It’s similar
    to what it sounds like when you’re in the house and can hear someone
    talking outside, and even though you can’t understand the words, you
    know it’s unmistakably the cadence of a human voice. The strange, muted
    voice is so noticeable that I’ve had to get up and turn the noise
    machine off because it was keeping me from sleeping. As soon as I turn
    the machine off, the voice stops along with the wind noise. Once it
    sounded like a man’s voice. Another time I thought it sounded more like
    a woman, repeating the same indistinguishable phrase over and over
    again.

    Okay, here’s the incident that really gave me the creeps, and
    pretty much made me a believer. There were just me, Roscoe the cat and
    Hagrid the Great Dane in the house. Hagrid, who refuses to climb the
    steep stairs, was downstairs. Kitty was keeping me company upstairs.

    I
    was in the bathroom getting dressed. The house was perfectly quiet.
    Suddenly I heard the unmistakable sound of human footsteps. Step — step
    — step — step — step — step — across the bare pine floor in the central
    sitting area upstairs, right next to the bathroom. I called out,
    “Doyle? Jamie?” No answer. I walked out into the sitting area. Only
    Kitty was sitting there, perched on a chair, frozen, his eyes wide
    open, terrified. He was staring in the direction the footsteps had
    gone, toward Doyle’s office. No human was in the house but me.

    Not
    willing to believe it was a  ghost, I told myself, “Those footsteps
    must have been Kitty walking across the floor. Maybe this old floor
    just amplified his soft steps.”

    Nope. Right then, Roscoe jumped down
    from the chair and walked across the same section of floor the
    footsteps had come from. With a fearful certainty, I realized that his
    little white feet were perfectly silent as they padded across the floor.

    I
    don’t quite know what to think. I don’t get a feeling of evil or some
    malevolent presence — it’s all just very, very strange. All of these
    incidents are totally outside the realm of my experience, and I’m not
    sure how to process them.

    For almost 20 years in Mississippi, we
    lived in a house much older than this one. Like all old houses, it made
    noises. It popped and creaked and moaned in the wind. But I never heard
    footsteps, or smelled baking when the oven was off, or heard a voice
    murmuring through my white-noise machine.

    Could our old house truly be haunted?

    By Celia DeWoody
    Published Dec. 10, 2008 Harrison (Ark.) Daily Times
    Copyright 2008 CPI, Inc.





  • Super-busy week here in our world. We moved into our new/old house on Monday. I took that one day off, and have had a busy week with work, church stuff, and trying to unpack in the evenings. But we are so, so grateful to have our wonderful old house and to be getting it sort of straight.
    Doyle's mom Ruby will move in next weekend. Hopefully we'll be a little more organized by then!
    I did put out some Christmas decorations in the house last night, but that's ALL the Christmas preparations I've accomplished so far.
    I loved getting out my Mama's little white porcelain angel choir, and the nativity scene my son Jamie gave me two years ago to replace the one we had when he was growing up that got lost in our move from Mississippi. And my Santa Clauses...including some from my mother's collection.
    Can't wait to go chop down our REAL tree at the Christmas tree farm like we did last year. It was the most beautiful Christmas tree I've ever had in my life, and smelled SO good.
    I'll put up photos of the progress we're making in unpacking and getting the house settled, as soon as I can!
    What have YOU been doing this week?

    PS- Remind me to fill y'all in on our GHOST!!!